Tips For Women: Five (5) Steps To Avoid Dating A Loser

Every female population who believe in romance wants to find “the right one”. It is for this reason that a woman dates in the first place – in hope to find the lifetime partner to exchange these words with: “… for sickness and health, for richer or poorer, til death do us part”. However, as one looks for love, one is bound to experience both hits and misses as well.

fearofcommitmentHow To Avoid Dating A Loser

Don’t let your women pheromones go into waste. Here’s what you can do to save yourself from the trauma and pain of failed relationship. Learn how to avoid getting the attention of losers with these five (5) simple steps.

1.       Begin with yourself.

  • Appearance. Your appearance can create a lasting impression to each guy you meet. A very conservative hairstyle and outfit can communicate that you are uptight and a super cautious lady. On the contrary, a plunging neckline and ultra-short shorts can leave a notion that you’re just out for some fun and wild night. Therefore, take notice in how you dress and carry yourself so men will look beyond your looks and figure. Keep it in balance and do not go for extremes.
  • Attitude. It’s all about knowing your self-worth and fully recognizing your strengths and weaknesses so that you will not settle for anything less. Be confident and satisfied with who you are and what you have become. As you do this, your human pheromones will attract men of the same disposition.

2.       Do not be swayed by outward facade alone. Remember that there is more to than meets the eye. Your potential date may be good-looking and oozing with appeal and charm but do not let that influence your decision. Do a background check on him. For all you know, he’s a certified gigolo and has a string of girlfriends on his tails. Or he can be a bum with no personal motivation to complete his goals whatsoever.

3.       Check out for signs. There are several indicators to tell you if he’s a keeper or a loser. Observe how he talks with the people around him. Is he for real or just faking it? Do you see compassion when he sees a kid or a dog on the street?

4.       Widen your network. The trick here is to explore various ways to meet a new person each day. The more socially active you are, the higher the chance that you get to interact with different types of personalities.

5.       Take your time. There’s no need to rush things. Love takes time. Enjoy life. For as long as you’re doing actions towards finding it, it will go knocking in your door before you know it.

Tips For Women: Five (5) Tips To Finding The Man Of Your Dreams

pheromonesDon’t wait for your dream guy to literally knock on your door and sweep you off your feet. Take the first step in finding him yourself! Start shifting your line of thoughts and think of yourself as a magnet pulling him towards your direction. Here is a quick guide to show you how.

  1. Know yourself. You got to begin with yourself. What is it that you want in a partner? List down all the qualities that you are looking for – does he have to be good looking, financially secure, and able to connect well with your family and friends? Personality-wise, do prefer someone quiet and mysterious so he could complement well with your bubbly character or somebody who’s as cheerful as you are? How significant is compatibility to you? Do you have to be compatible in traits? Or having the same beliefs and visions good enough for you? Rate them one to ten with 10 being the most important. Having this checklist does not mean you are being a perfectionist. You are just confirming the fact that you are a great girl who deserves the best life can ever offer.
  1. Improve your appearance. The main trick is how to embrace your feminine side and make sure that your women pheromones are all up and working. Sport a new haircut. Remember that your hair is your crowning glory. Apply light make-up that emphasizes your soulful eyes and full lips. Pick your wardrobe carefully. Make sure that they highlight your figure in a subtle way. Smell great. Wear pheromone perfume whenever you leave your house. You never know when and where you’re going to stumble with Mr. Right. Look neat and ultra-clean. Take pains in enhancing your overall form. Set out to leave a powerful impression to all the guys you are going to encounter.
  1. Work on your attitude. It’s all about psyching and readying yourself for the challenge. Keep in mind who you are – you’re an independent and confident woman who knows what she wants and how to get it. Devise strategies so you would not appear awkward and desperate when you meet men. Be prepared on how to keep a conversation smooth and flowing. Remember that nothing beats a smart gal.
  1. Socialize. Break out of your comfort zone and try something new. Build your networks. Take time to talk to people you wouldn’t normally speak to. Be open to opportunities. Explore different activities you’ve never done before – biking, working out in a gym, taking a spontaneous out-of-town trip. The reason why you’re still single even if you’re available to mingle is because you’ve been exposed to a very limited environment. So ensure that you venture out and widen your world. Once you are out there, everything else will follow.
  1. Never settle for less than you’re worth. Do not limit yourself or sell yourself short. The success of achieving your dream lies within you. You wouldn’t want to be stuck in a future relationship you are not full-heartedly committed in the first place, would you?

Signs That Your Boy Friend Likes You As A Boyfriend

It’s absolutely normal for a girl to have male friends. However, it is also not unusual for one of these male friends to develop a certain attraction for the female friend. However, your male friends are not immune to any women pheromones you might be emitting. Even if you do not wear any pheromone perfume, your body naturally emits pheromones. Hence, some of your boy friends might actually be interested in becoming your boyfriend. In fact, here are some of the signs that you might want to look out for to check if your boy friend likes you as a boyfriend already.

  • Boy friend gets closer than usual. Males usually keep their distance from others, even from male friends, but more so from female ones. Perhaps this is because males are usually less attached and more solitary in nature than females. So if a boy friend suddenly starts hovering around you more closely (and more regularly) than before, then there might be something going on. This may not only be in the form of actual physical proximity. He can also start calling you more frequently, showing up in a lot of places you usually go to, and volunteering to accompany you everywhere.
  • Boy friend wants to be bodyguard. It is natural for males to be protective about friends. However, most of the time, this protective nature does not go beyond a certain measure of inconvenience. In other words, they will worry about you but only until it is still convenient for them. If, a boy friend starts going an extra mile or more to make sure you are safe and sound, then something must be up with him. If he is willing to wait up for you for hours, accompany you home (when he lives in the other side of the world), or pick you up after school or work, then it is most likely that he is trying to be more than just friends with you, unless of course he is just practicing to become a professional bodyguard someday.
  • Boy friend starts marking territories. Male friends can be overly protective especially when it comes to close friends. But, if a boy friend becomes unusually more concerned and overprotective about you going out with other males, then you can assume that there is something more there. Even though guys are not too kin on being chums with other males (especially those they don’t know), they usually don’t express any opinion on the matter. However, if you boy friend starts making a fuss about it, it is more often than not a display of territorial marking – a telltale sign of someone who’s clearly more than a friend.

What You Need To Know Before Living Together

Every relationship goes through phases and develops naturally. From a casual date, a relationship can progress into a more serious and lasting relationship. Although for many couples, one of the biggest turning points in their relationships is getting married, there are a lot of couples who prefer to live together before tying the knot.

However, just like for those who are planning to get married, a lot of thought and consideration should go into a couple’s decision to live together. If you are one of those couples who are thinking of living together, below are some of the things that you need to know.

  • Budget concerns.  Living together with someone means sharing space and a lot of resources with another person. This translates to increased consumption and expenses. Who will shoulder the additional costs then? Will the expenses be shared equally? Although some expenses will increase because of increased consumption, it should not be a burden if you will share in the payment of the expenses.


  • Privacy.  Everyone needs some personal space. The problem is that boundary that defines your personal space often blurs when you’re living together with someone. If you are not ready for this kind of encroachment into your privacy and personal space, then you are probably not ready to live together. No amount of pheromones for men will make you ignore your partner’s habits and personal hygiene so make sure you are ready to face such things before moving in together.


  • Change in relationship. Living together will signal the start of a different level in your relationship. This level foregoes whatever front you may have put up while you were still just dating. Whatever advantage pheromones provided for you at the start will definitely taper off. Sex will not be as frequent as you would expect it to be especially because you will have a lot more time together and you will see each other in your most unsexy times.
  • Chores. Unless you have a maid, there will only be two people who will do the chores and you will have to talk about how to divide these between the two of you, preferably before you move in together.


  • Future plans. It is best to discuss your options and possible future plans before moving in together. Do you see this setup of living together as something that is temporary in preparation for the possibility of marriage? Or do you both see it as something that is permanent?

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Relationship Tips For Women: Top Ten (10) Mistakes To Avoid As A Girlfriend

Love can bring the extremes in a person. It can take you to the highest peak if you’re happy yet lead you to the lowest point imaginable if you’re sad. Because of this, like any normal being, everyone makes mistakes and we, women, are not an exception.loveHere are the top ten (10) cardinal DONT’s every good girlfriend should avoid so as not to scare your guy away and make him running to another woman’s arms.

1.       Don’t be a vine. What are the characteristics of a vine? They are naturally green and clingy. For a girl in love, it’s understandable to want to see your boyfriend each chance you get, hear his voice, smell his cologne, or watch him laugh. Love can do that. However, it’s no longer healthy if you lose your own self and become merely his shadow, wanting to know consistently where he is, what’s he’s doing and who he is with. Get a life! Give him privacy and respect his space.
2.       Don’t play Rapunzel… daily. There’s a big difference between a damsel in distress and a pain in a butt. It’s a totally different thing to be helpless and to be desperate. Do not be a crazed needy individual. If your act is to be a Rapunzel who wants to be rescued every lil time, even the most patient, persistent prince would get tired climbing that sky-scraping tower if he has to do it time and time again. Worse, he might even tie up your thick long hair to the tree branch so you’d stop pestering him like a kid. Let him need you for a change.
3.       Don’t be a soap opera queen. If you’re aiming for Oscar’s or Emmy’s and testing how effective your tears are with your partner, you better think again. Drama won’t get you anywhere. It might have its effect the first few times, but it won’t last long if you make it a habit and become a cry-baby. He would want someone who’s emotionally mature and not an emotional wreck.

4.        Don’t be aqua-phobic or cringe at the sight of a comb. Hygiene is important so throw away your fear of water and take a bath everyday. Do not be unhygienic and unappealing. Look for ways to improve your appearance and femininity. Wow him! Wear your hair down or lift it up to have a tantalizing glimpse of your incredibly smooth neck. Let your human pheromones take over and seduce him with your looks, clothes and scent. Nothing is more exciting than a lady who knows how to get her man with just one glance.
5.       Don’t be a 24/7 helpdesk agent. It’s all about keeping the spice and allowing him to chase you and you being not so easy to get. There’s nothing wrong being a helpdesk or for being there when he needs you. But then again, learn how to moderate it else you’d end up being his house-help and taken for granted.
6.       Don’t be a female version of Magneto. If you’re an XMEN fan, you’d recognize right away that Magneto controls magnetic fields and can manipulate any electromagnetic energy. In this case, avoid being a control freak. Men hates to be controlled, most of all, by women. Don’t be a pushover. We have our own power and if we use it wisely and timely in a non-manipulative way, we can keep our guys satisfied and get what we want at the same time. Give him the upper hand. On the other hand, ensure that he also realizes that you can always turn the table around if you really want to.
7.       Don’t be blinded with the “I” letter, there’s also a “U” in the alphabet. Being self-centered will do you no good. Love is a give and take partnership. No matter how high the attraction level is and how strong the pheromones do their work, if you’re too self-absorbed who continuously say “I, I, I” and doesn’t know how to listen, you’d be bound to have a disastrous relationship at one time or another. Educate yourself with the word “compromise”.
8.       Don’t be a fortune teller. Never make him feel like you are all knowing and can predict what’s going to happen in the future. They are generally on their guards when it comes to “lifetime commitment”. So, if you have been together for a few months, talking about bells and linens and little bundles of joy at this early stage would surely make him a runner vying for an Olympics gold medal, where the medal is placed in the farthest corner of the earth, zillion miles away from you. If you’re a couple for sometime now, there are several techniques to approach marriage like two adults. On the same note, keep your clairvoyant skills to yourself and prevent reliving the past and ex-es while with him. Once or twice is okay to see his reaction perhaps or gauge if he’d get jealous. More than that is a big NO.
9.       Don’t be a Tupperware. Don’t be plastic. Show him the real you. If you’re pleased, be transparent. If you’re down and hurting, do not hesitate to confide in him. Hiding your real self would not be fair to you and to him. Be true. Honesty is the only way to go.
10.   Don’t run for the title of “the best martyr in the planet”. What happens to martyrs these days? They die. Sure, in a relationship, you have your own sacrifices to make but it always is and will be a two-way street. Do not always be the one to make the first move in times of a big fight. Do not be too eager to please. Respect yourself and have some pride.

Tips For Women: Six (6) Signs To Tell If He’s The One

How would you know if your boyfriend is the one? Incredible romantics would say “you would just know”. However, it is not as simple as that. You need a more solid proof or further indication to back that up else you could end up either becoming a playgirl switching lovers the way you switch clothes daily or worse, being an old maid, hopelessly waiting for that one non-existent guy to sweep you off your feet. Here are six (6) signs to guide you in telling if he’s the one.

  1. There’s friendship. What constitute friendship? Respect, honesty, faith, loyalty, and support. You have your own differences yet have mutual respect. You give and receive tough love and understand that honesty is a must. You trust and believe in one another. You are both loyal even in the middle of disagreements and challenges. You are there to stand by, defend, protect and support the other when needed. Just like a best friend, your family, loved ones and circle of friends agree that he brings out the best in you and vice versa.
  2. There’s mutual attraction. That sizzling chemistry is ever present. You feel pheromones at work every time you’re together. You find your scents irresistible – you with his aftershave, him with your pheromone cologne, even natural sweat. The movements, the manner of talking pull you closer to one another. There’s a thirst to know anything and everything – good, bad, ugly.
  3. Love never ceases and maturity grows. It gets stronger as each day passes by. Everyday, you find different reasons to love and fall in love. Regardless if you had a big fight a few minutes ago and had a shouting match, you are both matured and secured as individuals to welcome it as an added spice in the relationship and consider it normal as breathing itself.
    Love never ceases
  4. Words are not necessary. One quick look at his face and you know what’s he’s undergoing. It’s similar for him when he sees you. It’s like being part of each other that you fully understand what it’s like without uttering a word. You’re comfortable with your spaces. You can sit in silence for an hour without talking nor touching and still think that it’s the most special moment you shared. This signifies how at ease you are with the company of the other that spending a lifetime is not scary at all but instead, something to look forward to.
  5. Flaws and fine points are not separate and seen as one. You accept him for what he is and he does too to you. You are yourself. You don’t need to wear make up and take super pains to appear pretty just so to impress him. He doesn’t have to be really cool and sexy to capture and maintain your interest. You’re still perfect in his eyes as he is to you. You’ve seen the worst of each other and you don’t mind a bit.
  6. You have the same goals and dreams. You want the same things in life. It all goes down on how you see the future. You agree and compromise on things that really matter – living in the suburbs, having kids, enriching family values and the like.

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