Tips For Dating An Older Woman

Thanks to the movies like The Graduate and the TV series Cougar Town, a younger guy dating an older woman is not such an unusual situation nowadays. Being called a cougar is not a bad thing anymore in this day and age and with popular cougars like Demi Moore, many young men find them very attractive.

The appeal of older women cannot be attributed to human pheromones alone. Although some may say that a younger guy-older woman relationship may answer the question on how do pheromones work, it cannot be denied that some older women have a certain appeal to younger men. They seem wiser, more sensual, and more self-assured than younger women so some guys prefer to date someone older.

Naturally, dating an older woman will have its own unique set of challenges. Below are some tips for guys who prefer to date an older woman.

  • Be confident. If you are the type of guy who cannot decide for himself, shy, and clingy, then dating an older woman is not for you. Older women will not be bothered with men who would like to be mothered; they prefer someone who is assertive, confident, and self-assured.

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  • Treat her as an equal. Do not make your age difference an issue for your relationship. Instead, treat her as an equal in everything. Never refer to her as a cougar and best not to point out that she is much older than you.

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  • Respect her. Every girl, no matter the age, deserves respect. But older women will not tolerate any disrespect. These women have experienced a lot and gone through a lot in their lives, probably more than your share of stuff, and respect is something they will expect from their guy.

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  • Know what you want in life. An older woman is probably aware of what she wants in her life and she will be turned off with a guy who does not know what he wants in life. It is important that you have figured out your goals for your future and you have focus. Older women do not like uncertainty and this applies to men that have many issues in their lives.

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  • Don’t try to change her. It is the doom of your relationship if you so much as think about changing her. Older women are set in their ways and will not appreciate being changed by a younger man.

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Unique Gifts For Father’s Day

Every year, a day on the third Sunday of June is set aside to recognize fathers everywhere. Every father will surely appreciate getting a token of gratitude from his family for everything that he has done for the family. Below are some unique gift ideas that any father will appreciate this coming Father’s day.

  • Perfume. This may seem like a typical gift that you can give to a father. However, if you are a woman looking for a gift for the father of your children, why not give him a pheromone cologne instead of the usual perfume? This type of cologne has human pheromones that can supposedly increase a person’s sexual attractiveness. There are many scents available so not only will it be a fun gift to give, your partner will also appreciate having a new scent to wear.
  • bottles-menSport tickets. Is your dad a fanatic of a particular sport? Why not give him tickets to a big game that you can both enjoy watching together? Not only will he appreciate the opportunity to watch his favorite team or favorite sport live, he will also love spending quality time with you. You can make it extra special by giving him an accessory for his favorite sport or favorite team.
  • Sport_TicketsWireless mouse. It may not be an obvious gift appropriate for Father’s day but many dads will be pleased to discover the convenience and ease that a wireless mouse brings. There are many unique designs available in most computer stores and you will surely find one that is perfect for the big man in your life.
  • Microsoft Wireless Mouse 2000 550Fitness gym membership. Is it time for your partner or your dad to start taking greater care of his health? Why not purchase a membership for him to a nearby fitness gym? A lot of older men will not shell out money to enroll themselves in a fitness gym but would definitely appreciate it as a gift. This gift will help him get fit and healthy – perfect for just about any dad out there.
  • Gym MembershipPhotobook. Collect as many photos as you can of your dad or your partner with his children. Create a photobook of him in his daddy moments and he will surely appreciate having something he can look through to reminisce his time with his children. This book will definitely be kept and looked at over and over again in the many years to come.

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Tips for Men: Ten (10) Tips To Attract Women With Body Language

Communication doesn’t have to be verbal all the time. It can be non-verbal. Learn the art of using your body to send a message to an attractive lassie. Here are ten (10) tips on how to get a lady interested with the use of body language.
Maintain a strong eye contact. Never underestimate the power of your eyes. They are the windows to your soul. Praise her with meaningful gazes on her face. Laugh with her through your eyes – there is nothing more appealing for a woman than a set of laughing and twinkling eyes.
1Radiate confidence. Walk and stand confidently – keep your head up, chest out, be straight and tall. Avoid gestures that would prove that you are in a nervous state. That’s a major turn-off. Do not tap on your foot or be fidgety. Do not play with your sleeves or collar and look anxiously around the room.
?????????????????????????Be slow in your movements. Take time in anything you do. This signifies that you are comfortable with yourself thus people are more likely to approach you. On a female’s viewpoint, there’s something sensual about being slow and easy. It is as if you are a very patient man and you have all the time in the world. This would make them watch your every movement.
1Dominate the space that you are in. If you’re on a sofa waiting for someone, go to the middle seat, lean back and prop your legs up. Once you take up the space, it shows that you own the territory. It implies that you are an alpha male – powerful and fit to be a king. This is guaranteed to be a head-turner.
1Practice a relaxed pose while sitting. Put your arms on the sides and refrain from folding them. If you do the latter, it connotes you are on guard and shielding yourself. Relax. Ladies would like to hang out with gents who are cool and in a relaxed state of mind.
Be emotionally contained. Let everybody see that you are in control of everything. If a situation calls for an angry outburst, be calm and composed instead. Avoid expressing too much emotion. Leave that area to the “boys”. Be a man – controlled and collected. This is a great turn-on as any female would love to know what would make you lose restraint.
Exude an air of mystery. Women can’t resist guys with mysterious appeals. You can start with a branded mysterious smile – closed-mouth, with your head bending slightly to the sides and eyebrows raised. It makes them think that you know something that they don’t know. If you’re out together and enjoying a fruitful conversation, look far away as if in deep thoughts. Be careful when you do this though. You do not want her to feel that she’s left out and you’re thinking of or remembering somebody else.
Stay quiet and observe. If you are with a group of people, the way to stand out from the rest is by moving away from the crowd and staying still while observing. One is bound to notice that as quiet elegance – that you talk only when it’s necessary. Give out an impression that you are the “less talk, more action” type of guy. This excites a woman and challenges her to make you talk more.
Be subtle to tell that you like her. Opened palms and feet apart mean you are open to the things around you. Seduce her with your scent. If you’re sharing a seat in a restaurant, reach out for a condiment on her side so she can get a whiff of your natural scent. Studies support the concept that pheromones attract women. Consider checking products such as colognes or perfumes that increase signals and pheromones for men.
Pay attention to what she needs. If you’re out on a date, be a gentleman and predict what she needs – pour her a glass of wine if it’s almost empty, lend her your jacket if it’s getting cold outside. This indicates that you are kind and sweet and gentle. Nothing is more charming than a man who knows how to treat a lady.

Menstrual Synchrony: Myth Or Fact?

There are many things that are going on in a woman’s body.  Every month women have their menstrual cycle which is their bodies’ way of getting ready for conception. During menstruation, their bodies are simply getting rid of eggs and uterine lining that their body prepared for conception.

There are many other information associated with menstruation and among these is menstrual synchrony. Menstrual synchrony is a theory that the menstrual cycles of women who live together synchronize over time. Since this concept is theory, this means that it is not yet an accepted fact although many studies suggest that this theory is indeed true.

The idea or concept of menstrual synchrony has been observed by a lot of women even before it was given a name. However, it was not until 1971 when an undergraduate named Martha McClintock formally made the first study on menstrual synchrony. Another study was done in 1998 by McClintock and Kathleen Stern to further explore the possibility that the release and reception of women pheromones are the reason why menstrual synchrony happens. Although this study suggests that pheromones for women which, in the study, was collected from the underarms of the women in the study, really have an effect on other women, the results were still not wholly conclusive especially since other studies are done to refute menstrual synchrony.

There were two other known studies that were done on menstrual synchrony. A study of 20 lesbian couples conducted by Weller and Weller showed that in more than half of these couples, the two women had their menstruations within two days of each other. However, another study by Trevathana et al. on 29 lesbian couples showed no evidence of menstrual synchrony.

Many of the criticisms about the studies done by McClintock centered on methodological errors and errors in data collection and mathematical calculations. H. Clyde Wilson of the University of Missouri even made studies with these errors corrected and his studies showed no evidence of menstrual synchrony.

Despite these many conflicting studies on human pheromones, the question of whether human pheromones actually do exist is still unanswered. Still, many human behaviors are such that they are affected by other humans. In other animals, different kinds of pheromones are released for different purposes such as for alarms, sexual attraction, information, and many more. While these chemicals have actually been observed to be excreted by other animals, human pheromones have not been identified and named.

Tips For Choosing The Best Cologne

You have probably heard of the terms cologne and perfume used interchangeably over the years. However, a cologne and a perfume, although they have their similarities, are different. A cologne is more diluted than perfume and hence, less expensive as well. Often labeled as “eau de toilette”, directly translated as toilet water, a cologne is not as long lasting as a perfume.

Since colognes still serve their purpose, which is to put scent, a lot of people prefer to use them instead of the more expensive perfumes. There are many different cologne in the market and the variety of scents is limitless. You can use a pheromone cologne to attract women because this is a type of cologne that contains pheromones.

With the wide selection of colognes to choose from, some people find it hard to pick one that is right for them. Below are some tips for choosing the best cologne for you.

  • Avoid synthetic compounds. A lot of colognes include ingredients that may cause skin problems. If you have a history of eczema, rashes, dermatitis, and hives, avoid colognes that have synthetic compounds. Some ingredients to steer clear from acetone, benzyl alcohol, benzyl acetate, limonene, benzaldehyde, ethyl acetate, a-pinene, and linalool.
  • Choose based on your skin type. You will be putting or spraying your cologne on your skin so it is very important to know what your skin type is to make sure that the cologne you will choose will be enhanced by the type of skin that you have. Those will oily skin will benefit most from colognes with a light citrus scent or light, airy, summertime scents. If you have dry skin, then scents do not last very long on your skin so it is good to try heavier or thicker scent.
  • Try out the cologne on your skin. Do not just rely on colognes sprayed on paper when choosing the scent for you. Different colognes adhere differently to different people so it is better to spray the cologne on your skin to try it out. This will test not just the individual smell of the cologne but also the resulting scent once it has mixed with your sweat and the natural moisture on your body.
  • Wait several hours before buying. When buying cologne, do not buy within the next few minutes after trying the cologne on your body. Colognes change scents over a span of several hours so it is best to wear the cologne first for four to six hours before buying it.

Tips for Buying Perfume for Your Partner

Whether there is a special occasion coming up or you simply want to surprise your significant other, buying a gift is something that you will do at least once. Among the usual options when buying a gift for a partner is perfume.

However, giving perfume to your partner can be quite tricky. For your partner to really appreciate it, the perfume has to appeal to his or her sense of smell. Below are some tips to help you when buying perfume for your partner.

  • Go for his or her signature perfume. If your partner has a perfume that he or she is loyal to, it is safest to buy the same perfume for him or her. However, this will only work best if he or she has an almost empty bottle of perfume. Otherwise, your gift might sit for a long time in storage before it gets opened and used. So make sure to make a discreet check of how much more perfume your partner still has. You may also try asking your partner whether he or she is running out of perfume soon.
  • Go for his or her personality. If you are planning on buying a new scent for your partner, make sure to go for a scent that suits his or her personality. Is your partner sporty? Do you think a floral smell or a citrus one will fit her better? Choose a perfume whose scent reminds you of your partner. You might also want to try giving a pheromone cologne which supposedly makes the wearer more attractive to the opposite sex with the inclusion of human pheromones in its ingredients.

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  • Go for a popular one. It might also be a safe option for you to choose among the most popular perfumes in the market. There are many branded perfumes such as those by Dolce & Gabbana, Calvin Klein, Dior, Ralph Lauren, Versace, and many more. However, these branded perfumes can be quite pricey. If you prefer something that is not very expensive but smells as good as a particular brand or scent, consider looking for imitation perfumes that are designed to smell like the real branded ones.
  • Go for a seasonal one. Various perfumes appeal to different seasons. Some perfumes are better worn during the summer while there are some that are better during colder weather. Choose a perfume that is appropriate for the season or the weather in your location.

Reading Your Date’s Body Language: Top Ten (10) Signs She’s Into You

If you’re a guy and you like your date very much, it would show in the way you move and talk. But how would you know if she feels the same? Here are top ten (10) signs that she’s into you as well.

  1. 1.      Short sideway glances.

Additional Signs: takes a number of brief glimpses along your side; have that dreamy five-second gazes, then would look away and glances right back

What it means: she finds you appealing

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  1. 2.      Self-grooming gestures.

Additional Signs: smoothes hair or clothes, crosses or uncrosses her legs

What it means: she wants you to concentrate or remain focused on her

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  1. 3.      Licks lips.

Additional Sign: flutters her eyelashes

What it means: coy romantic invitation or look at her best assets

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  1. 4.      Reveals neck.

Additional Signs: exposes and rubs her wrist. Perhaps, you’ll even get a whiff of her pheromone cologne.

What it means: willing to listen what you have to say

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  1. 5.      Takes more sips on wine.

Additional Sign: any clues that show nervous excitement

What it means: you excite her, in a good sense, that her women pheromones are on red alert

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  1. 6.      Sits forward.

Additional Signs: raises eyebrows or gasps when you reach the climax of your story

What it means: the manner in which you connect with her thrills her

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  1. 7.      Smiles widely.

Additional Sign: you can see the top and bottom of her teeth

What it means: you have the ability to please her

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  1. 8.      Laughs a lot.

Additional Signs: giggles even if there’s nothing particularly funny or laughs a lil bit on the flirty side

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  1. 9.      You have her full attention.

Additional Signs: ignores everything but you – a ringing phone or a good looking guy across the other table trying to catch her interest

What it means: you’re on the right track, you’re doing it right.

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  1. 10.  Calls you by a nickname.

Additional Sign: calls you by your complete first name

What it means: she doesn’t want to be another one of your mate and she looks forward to something more intimate

Dating Guide 101: Things to Remember After Going On A Date

This is the conclusion of the series: Dating Guide 101. Previously, we talked about the DOs and DONTs while on a date. On this last installment, take note of the things to remember right after the date itself.

Last-minute reminders before ending the date.

  • Be sure to express your personal and relationship goals. The other party must be aware if you’re really out looking for a relationship or if you’re just in for the friendship. This might be the turning point if there would be a “continuation to the saga”.
  • Unless you’re tremendously attracted and you feel that he/she is as well, do not voice your plans about the next date. You might sound too eager that you’ll turn him/her off. Worse, you might scare him/her away, you’ll leave an impression of becoming a potential stalker.
  • Do not request for their social media profiles. No to add me on Facebook, follow me on twitter. Save it if you’re in a relationship already.

The farewell.

  • Contemplate on how to say goodbye. A walk to the doorway might look promising. A polite farewell might mean “Nice meeting you, I hope I don’t see you again.” A handshake might connote “Thanks for the evening. You certainly have the makings of a good buddy.” For the ladies, be honest with the guy if after the first date, there’s no spark on your end. Be gentle but firm with your words.
  • Do not pressure him/her for a kiss or hug. If the feeling is mutual, it will all come naturally. Do not go too intimate right after the date even if your human pheromones suggest otherwise. If you do, you might send the wrong signal that you’re just a “fling” material, not someone up “for keeps.”
  • On your way home, text something short and sweet. This is a great way to end a successful night.

The assessment.

  • Immediately weigh up the positives and negatives of the event. Did you have something in common? Did you connect at some level?
  • Assess if he/she is interested. Did he/she maintain eye contact? Was there a little flirting? Was there any incident when you do have felt as if his pheromones were at work? In the manner of how the two of you communicated, was there ease? Were you comfy that you didn’t notice the time passed you by? Was there chemistry?
  • Do not be hasty in making your final assessment. If the date didn’t sound so good but he/she seems nice, give him another chance. It might just be a case of “being in a wrong place at a wrong time”.

The two-day rule.

  • Allot at least two days before you get in touch again. A day later might mean you’re too desperate. A week might signify you have no intention to pursue her anymore.
  • Learn the word “compromise”. For men, give her an option to say no BUT remember to convey that you are interested and willing to wait. For women, in case you are busy with your sched, recommend an alternative where you’ll be most available.
  • How to contact her. You can either make a call or have a bunch of flowers delivered to her home to subtlety inform that you like her.

Dating 101: Things to Remember Before Going On A Date

This three-part series is about Dating 101. It aims to share the DOs and DONTs before, during and after a date. On the first series, let’s tackle the five (5) basic items to remember before going to the date proper.

  1. Research, research!
  • For men. Do a research on your lady before asking her out. What type of food does she like? What activities would interest her? From here, you can plan on where to treat her best.
  • For women. Check the guy out first. Don’t be so hasty in turning down the invitation. You never know, he might be the one!
  1. Plan and visualize the date before it happens.
  • For men. Once you have an idea of her likes and dislikes, start planning. Where will you treat her? Choose a romantic ambience where you both have a common ground. Do not be defined with the usual perception of “romance”. You can challenge her to a tennis match and still be romantic and sweet by inviting her favorite couple in the world. How long will the date be? Would it be a morning, noon, afternoon or evening rendezvous?  How do you keep the conversation going? Connection is the most essential aspect above all these so remember to think of ways to connect.
  • For women. Take it all in a stride. No high expectations. If he asks you to go to the movies with him, imagine beforehand the films where you’d get a glimpse of his character. Do not make abrupt judgment on the activity type he offers.
  1. Take a rest and be relaxed.
  • For men. Have a break for an hour or two prior to the ‘event’. If you would be coming from work, stay where you can de-stress. Coming to the date well-rested will do wonders to your overall aura.
  • For women. Indulge yourself to a quick trip to a beauty salon or spa. This will certainly relax all stressed muscles strained from the day’s work.
  1. Dress up!
  • For men. First impressions last. Catch her attention by dressing up wisely. A very small dab of masculine cologne can activate human pheromones. Let the pheromones advantage weave its magic. Wear a watch to show your personality. Trim your nails and have a haircut as you deem necessary.
  • For women. Select clothes that will highlight your greatest features. No too much skin though. Opt for comfortable yet stylish and flattering look. And of course, be sure to smell nice.
  1. Meeting arrangement.
  • For men. Do you pick her up at her house? If so, make sure to bring her favorite flowers or anything that will set the mood right. Do you meet at the dating place? Be ahead at least by five (5) minutes to give a good impact.
  • For women. If he’s coming to your place, be ready and prompt. Quickly scan your interiors to see if it projects who you are. If you’re going to meet elsewhere, time your arrival. Too early could mean you’re too excited. Too late could signify you’re not interested.

Tune in to the next post for the dating guide checklist while on a date.

Reasons To Try Speed Dating

Speed dating, which is a dating scheme that was developed several years ago, is growing in popularity among both males and females. This is actually a small event where an equal number of males and females go on a ‘date’ with each other all in just an hour or two. This means that as a participant, you get to spend as little as three minutes and as much as five minute with each of the other participants.

Although most people would not be so brave to try speed dating, it has some benefits and advantages which could encourage you to try it. Below are some of these benefits.

  • Short and quick. How many times have you ever been stuck on a date that just won’t end fast enough? With speed dating, you get to interact with a person of the opposite sex without the demands and expectations of a first date. You do not have to endure hours with someone you do not enjoy talking to or do not have anything in common with.

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  • Casual and comfortable. Most speed dating events are organized such that they are very casual and comfortable. Although human pheromones will still be inevitably at work, the atmosphere is usually very friendly and fun.

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  • Meet a variety of people. A speed dating event is possibly one of the very few times when you will be able to meet as many different people in very little time. Even if you do not find anyone you might want to go on a personal one-on-one date, you will at least meet a lot of people and have fun. You might even find yourself not wondering do pheromones work because you might meet some new friends instead of romantic potentials.

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  • Affordable. Speed dating events are usually very affordable especially if you compare the costs of going out on a real date with someone. The fees would often include participation to the event, food, and drinks.

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  • Some people do not like dating simply because they are not good at dealing with people they do not know well. A speed dating event is great practice for those who want to develop their people skills. Since each ‘date’ will last only a few minutes, you will get the hang of trying to make conversations with strangers. You might also pick up some good techniques on how to converse better with other people.