Tips For Women: Five (5) Steps To Avoid Dating A Loser

Every female population who believe in romance wants to find “the right one”. It is for this reason that a woman dates in the first place – in hope to find the lifetime partner to exchange these words with: “… for sickness and health, for richer or poorer, til death do us part”. However, as one looks for love, one is bound to experience both hits and misses as well.

fearofcommitmentHow To Avoid Dating A Loser

Don’t let your women pheromones go into waste. Here’s what you can do to save yourself from the trauma and pain of failed relationship. Learn how to avoid getting the attention of losers with these five (5) simple steps.

1.       Begin with yourself.

  • Appearance. Your appearance can create a lasting impression to each guy you meet. A very conservative hairstyle and outfit can communicate that you are uptight and a super cautious lady. On the contrary, a plunging neckline and ultra-short shorts can leave a notion that you’re just out for some fun and wild night. Therefore, take notice in how you dress and carry yourself so men will look beyond your looks and figure. Keep it in balance and do not go for extremes.
  • Attitude. It’s all about knowing your self-worth and fully recognizing your strengths and weaknesses so that you will not settle for anything less. Be confident and satisfied with who you are and what you have become. As you do this, your human pheromones will attract men of the same disposition.

2.       Do not be swayed by outward facade alone. Remember that there is more to than meets the eye. Your potential date may be good-looking and oozing with appeal and charm but do not let that influence your decision. Do a background check on him. For all you know, he’s a certified gigolo and has a string of girlfriends on his tails. Or he can be a bum with no personal motivation to complete his goals whatsoever.

3.       Check out for signs. There are several indicators to tell you if he’s a keeper or a loser. Observe how he talks with the people around him. Is he for real or just faking it? Do you see compassion when he sees a kid or a dog on the street?

4.       Widen your network. The trick here is to explore various ways to meet a new person each day. The more socially active you are, the higher the chance that you get to interact with different types of personalities.

5.       Take your time. There’s no need to rush things. Love takes time. Enjoy life. For as long as you’re doing actions towards finding it, it will go knocking in your door before you know it.

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Tips For Men: Four (4) Great Ways To Meet Women

Are you having a hard time finding a date? Increase your chances of meeting amazing women. Apply these simple techniques that guarantee 100% success.

1.       Start with yourself. Every change you want to see in your life should always come from within.

  • Develop an attitude that you are in control of your destiny and that in every decisions that you make, it is towards reaching a certain goal. This would give you confidence and focus which are both important not only to your lovelife but to your entire well-being as well.
  • Improve your appearance. Groom yourself, sport a new haircut, clean and trim your nails. Wear scents that increases pheromones. Search for clothes that are tailor-fit just for you.
  • Work on your personality. Too serious? Lighten up a bit. Too stiff? Relax. Not a talker? Try opening up a conversation for a change. Acquire traits that are irresistible to the ladies.

2.       Get outside and be aware of what’s happening around you. Once you’re done with the basics, it’s time to put them to a test. Perform your daily activities like you used to. The only difference is, make them as often as you could and be extra observant of your surroundings. If you visit the groceries once a week, try twice. Time it when most girls are out taking their grocery shopping too. If you drive your way to work everyday, consider commuting one or two times. Public transportation is one of the best places to meet people from all walks of life so do not let the opportunity pass you by. When you’re out checking for your favorite book, be mindful of the person who’s browsing near your aisle. For all you know, she’s the one you’re looking for.

3.       Take on new interests. Getting involved in several hobbies is a great method to get your human pheromones working. Head over to the sports gym near your area. Study their body-building program and think about becoming a member. Not only would you see a lot of females there, you get to build six-pack abs too.

4.       Modify your lifestyle. If your routine usually involves office and house, change that instantly. Join your colleagues if they have a Friday night-out. If a friend invites you to go clubbing, do not hesitate. If your sister is attending a wedding, be her escort. Socialize more and never let down an invite.

Benefits Of Using Perfume

A lot of people take considerable effort and time in trying to look good and presentable to other people. While attention is often given to the hairstyle, outfits, and accessories, it is also good to put on something that will appeal not to the sense of sight but to the sense of smell.

perfumesrow3There are many different kinds of perfumes that you can choose from. A wide variety of scents are often available from various brands and manufacturers that will appeal to different kinds of people. There are even human pheromones perfumes that supposedly contain women or men pheromones so that the wearer will be more appealing to the opposite gender.

max-attract-men-promoNo matter what kind of perfume you may choose to wear, it is undeniable that using perfume has a lot of benefits. Below are some of them.

  • Smell good. The primary reason why many people use perfume is to smell good. This is the biggest and most important benefit of using perfume. Although perfumes are not meant to hide bad smells, it will help ensure that you smell good no matter what you do.
  • Confidence booster. Just like with an outfit that you know looks good on you, wearing perfume can help boost your confidence simply because you know that you smell wonderful. Choosing a scent that accurately reflects your personality also helps put you in the right mood as well as helps you project yourself with more confidence.
  • Mood enhancer. Are you feeling playful and sexy? Or maybe timid and reserved? All perfumes offer particular smells that you can associate with different moods. Wearing a perfume whose smell corresponds to the mood that you are in will help you project this mood better. Whatever mood you wish to put yourself in, wearing a perfume that gives off that impression will help you get yourself in that mood faster.
  • Increase attraction. Many individuals have experienced being attracted to someone simply because of how the other person smells. Whether a perfume contains pheromones or not, it can easily function as a natural aphrodisiac or an instant attraction-getter. Sometimes even without seeing what a person looks like, some people can instantly feel attracted to someone because of how that person smells.
  • Improve health. Although there are no specific evidence to prove that using perfume can improve health, the benefits discussed above, particularly about enhancing one’s mood, will help to improve one’s health.

Relationship Tips For Women: Top Ten (10) Mistakes To Avoid As A Girlfriend

Love can bring the extremes in a person. It can take you to the highest peak if you’re happy yet lead you to the lowest point imaginable if you’re sad. Because of this, like any normal being, everyone makes mistakes and we, women, are not an exception.loveHere are the top ten (10) cardinal DONT’s every good girlfriend should avoid so as not to scare your guy away and make him running to another woman’s arms.

1.       Don’t be a vine. What are the characteristics of a vine? They are naturally green and clingy. For a girl in love, it’s understandable to want to see your boyfriend each chance you get, hear his voice, smell his cologne, or watch him laugh. Love can do that. However, it’s no longer healthy if you lose your own self and become merely his shadow, wanting to know consistently where he is, what’s he’s doing and who he is with. Get a life! Give him privacy and respect his space.
 
2.       Don’t play Rapunzel… daily. There’s a big difference between a damsel in distress and a pain in a butt. It’s a totally different thing to be helpless and to be desperate. Do not be a crazed needy individual. If your act is to be a Rapunzel who wants to be rescued every lil time, even the most patient, persistent prince would get tired climbing that sky-scraping tower if he has to do it time and time again. Worse, he might even tie up your thick long hair to the tree branch so you’d stop pestering him like a kid. Let him need you for a change.
 
3.       Don’t be a soap opera queen. If you’re aiming for Oscar’s or Emmy’s and testing how effective your tears are with your partner, you better think again. Drama won’t get you anywhere. It might have its effect the first few times, but it won’t last long if you make it a habit and become a cry-baby. He would want someone who’s emotionally mature and not an emotional wreck.

4.        Don’t be aqua-phobic or cringe at the sight of a comb. Hygiene is important so throw away your fear of water and take a bath everyday. Do not be unhygienic and unappealing. Look for ways to improve your appearance and femininity. Wow him! Wear your hair down or lift it up to have a tantalizing glimpse of your incredibly smooth neck. Let your human pheromones take over and seduce him with your looks, clothes and scent. Nothing is more exciting than a lady who knows how to get her man with just one glance.
 
5.       Don’t be a 24/7 helpdesk agent. It’s all about keeping the spice and allowing him to chase you and you being not so easy to get. There’s nothing wrong being a helpdesk or for being there when he needs you. But then again, learn how to moderate it else you’d end up being his house-help and taken for granted.
 
6.       Don’t be a female version of Magneto. If you’re an XMEN fan, you’d recognize right away that Magneto controls magnetic fields and can manipulate any electromagnetic energy. In this case, avoid being a control freak. Men hates to be controlled, most of all, by women. Don’t be a pushover. We have our own power and if we use it wisely and timely in a non-manipulative way, we can keep our guys satisfied and get what we want at the same time. Give him the upper hand. On the other hand, ensure that he also realizes that you can always turn the table around if you really want to.
 
7.       Don’t be blinded with the “I” letter, there’s also a “U” in the alphabet. Being self-centered will do you no good. Love is a give and take partnership. No matter how high the attraction level is and how strong the pheromones do their work, if you’re too self-absorbed who continuously say “I, I, I” and doesn’t know how to listen, you’d be bound to have a disastrous relationship at one time or another. Educate yourself with the word “compromise”.
 
8.       Don’t be a fortune teller. Never make him feel like you are all knowing and can predict what’s going to happen in the future. They are generally on their guards when it comes to “lifetime commitment”. So, if you have been together for a few months, talking about bells and linens and little bundles of joy at this early stage would surely make him a runner vying for an Olympics gold medal, where the medal is placed in the farthest corner of the earth, zillion miles away from you. If you’re a couple for sometime now, there are several techniques to approach marriage like two adults. On the same note, keep your clairvoyant skills to yourself and prevent reliving the past and ex-es while with him. Once or twice is okay to see his reaction perhaps or gauge if he’d get jealous. More than that is a big NO.
 
9.       Don’t be a Tupperware. Don’t be plastic. Show him the real you. If you’re pleased, be transparent. If you’re down and hurting, do not hesitate to confide in him. Hiding your real self would not be fair to you and to him. Be true. Honesty is the only way to go.
 
10.   Don’t run for the title of “the best martyr in the planet”. What happens to martyrs these days? They die. Sure, in a relationship, you have your own sacrifices to make but it always is and will be a two-way street. Do not always be the one to make the first move in times of a big fight. Do not be too eager to please. Respect yourself and have some pride.

Tips For Dating An Older Woman

Thanks to the movies like The Graduate and the TV series Cougar Town, a younger guy dating an older woman is not such an unusual situation nowadays. Being called a cougar is not a bad thing anymore in this day and age and with popular cougars like Demi Moore, many young men find them very attractive.

The appeal of older women cannot be attributed to human pheromones alone. Although some may say that a younger guy-older woman relationship may answer the question on how do pheromones work, it cannot be denied that some older women have a certain appeal to younger men. They seem wiser, more sensual, and more self-assured than younger women so some guys prefer to date someone older.

Naturally, dating an older woman will have its own unique set of challenges. Below are some tips for guys who prefer to date an older woman.

  • Be confident. If you are the type of guy who cannot decide for himself, shy, and clingy, then dating an older woman is not for you. Older women will not be bothered with men who would like to be mothered; they prefer someone who is assertive, confident, and self-assured.

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  • Treat her as an equal. Do not make your age difference an issue for your relationship. Instead, treat her as an equal in everything. Never refer to her as a cougar and best not to point out that she is much older than you.

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  • Respect her. Every girl, no matter the age, deserves respect. But older women will not tolerate any disrespect. These women have experienced a lot and gone through a lot in their lives, probably more than your share of stuff, and respect is something they will expect from their guy.

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  • Know what you want in life. An older woman is probably aware of what she wants in her life and she will be turned off with a guy who does not know what he wants in life. It is important that you have figured out your goals for your future and you have focus. Older women do not like uncertainty and this applies to men that have many issues in their lives.

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  • Don’t try to change her. It is the doom of your relationship if you so much as think about changing her. Older women are set in their ways and will not appreciate being changed by a younger man.

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Menstrual Synchrony: Myth Or Fact?

There are many things that are going on in a woman’s body.  Every month women have their menstrual cycle which is their bodies’ way of getting ready for conception. During menstruation, their bodies are simply getting rid of eggs and uterine lining that their body prepared for conception.

There are many other information associated with menstruation and among these is menstrual synchrony. Menstrual synchrony is a theory that the menstrual cycles of women who live together synchronize over time. Since this concept is theory, this means that it is not yet an accepted fact although many studies suggest that this theory is indeed true.

The idea or concept of menstrual synchrony has been observed by a lot of women even before it was given a name. However, it was not until 1971 when an undergraduate named Martha McClintock formally made the first study on menstrual synchrony. Another study was done in 1998 by McClintock and Kathleen Stern to further explore the possibility that the release and reception of women pheromones are the reason why menstrual synchrony happens. Although this study suggests that pheromones for women which, in the study, was collected from the underarms of the women in the study, really have an effect on other women, the results were still not wholly conclusive especially since other studies are done to refute menstrual synchrony.

There were two other known studies that were done on menstrual synchrony. A study of 20 lesbian couples conducted by Weller and Weller showed that in more than half of these couples, the two women had their menstruations within two days of each other. However, another study by Trevathana et al. on 29 lesbian couples showed no evidence of menstrual synchrony.

Many of the criticisms about the studies done by McClintock centered on methodological errors and errors in data collection and mathematical calculations. H. Clyde Wilson of the University of Missouri even made studies with these errors corrected and his studies showed no evidence of menstrual synchrony.

Despite these many conflicting studies on human pheromones, the question of whether human pheromones actually do exist is still unanswered. Still, many human behaviors are such that they are affected by other humans. In other animals, different kinds of pheromones are released for different purposes such as for alarms, sexual attraction, information, and many more. While these chemicals have actually been observed to be excreted by other animals, human pheromones have not been identified and named.

Tips for Buying Perfume for Your Partner

Whether there is a special occasion coming up or you simply want to surprise your significant other, buying a gift is something that you will do at least once. Among the usual options when buying a gift for a partner is perfume.

However, giving perfume to your partner can be quite tricky. For your partner to really appreciate it, the perfume has to appeal to his or her sense of smell. Below are some tips to help you when buying perfume for your partner.

  • Go for his or her signature perfume. If your partner has a perfume that he or she is loyal to, it is safest to buy the same perfume for him or her. However, this will only work best if he or she has an almost empty bottle of perfume. Otherwise, your gift might sit for a long time in storage before it gets opened and used. So make sure to make a discreet check of how much more perfume your partner still has. You may also try asking your partner whether he or she is running out of perfume soon.
  • Go for his or her personality. If you are planning on buying a new scent for your partner, make sure to go for a scent that suits his or her personality. Is your partner sporty? Do you think a floral smell or a citrus one will fit her better? Choose a perfume whose scent reminds you of your partner. You might also want to try giving a pheromone cologne which supposedly makes the wearer more attractive to the opposite sex with the inclusion of human pheromones in its ingredients.

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  • Go for a popular one. It might also be a safe option for you to choose among the most popular perfumes in the market. There are many branded perfumes such as those by Dolce & Gabbana, Calvin Klein, Dior, Ralph Lauren, Versace, and many more. However, these branded perfumes can be quite pricey. If you prefer something that is not very expensive but smells as good as a particular brand or scent, consider looking for imitation perfumes that are designed to smell like the real branded ones.
  • Go for a seasonal one. Various perfumes appeal to different seasons. Some perfumes are better worn during the summer while there are some that are better during colder weather. Choose a perfume that is appropriate for the season or the weather in your location.

Dating Guide 101: Things to Remember After Going On A Date

This is the conclusion of the series: Dating Guide 101. Previously, we talked about the DOs and DONTs while on a date. On this last installment, take note of the things to remember right after the date itself.

Last-minute reminders before ending the date.

  • Be sure to express your personal and relationship goals. The other party must be aware if you’re really out looking for a relationship or if you’re just in for the friendship. This might be the turning point if there would be a “continuation to the saga”.
  • Unless you’re tremendously attracted and you feel that he/she is as well, do not voice your plans about the next date. You might sound too eager that you’ll turn him/her off. Worse, you might scare him/her away, you’ll leave an impression of becoming a potential stalker.
  • Do not request for their social media profiles. No to add me on Facebook, follow me on twitter. Save it if you’re in a relationship already.

The farewell.

  • Contemplate on how to say goodbye. A walk to the doorway might look promising. A polite farewell might mean “Nice meeting you, I hope I don’t see you again.” A handshake might connote “Thanks for the evening. You certainly have the makings of a good buddy.” For the ladies, be honest with the guy if after the first date, there’s no spark on your end. Be gentle but firm with your words.
  • Do not pressure him/her for a kiss or hug. If the feeling is mutual, it will all come naturally. Do not go too intimate right after the date even if your human pheromones suggest otherwise. If you do, you might send the wrong signal that you’re just a “fling” material, not someone up “for keeps.”
  • On your way home, text something short and sweet. This is a great way to end a successful night.

The assessment.

  • Immediately weigh up the positives and negatives of the event. Did you have something in common? Did you connect at some level?
  • Assess if he/she is interested. Did he/she maintain eye contact? Was there a little flirting? Was there any incident when you do have felt as if his pheromones were at work? In the manner of how the two of you communicated, was there ease? Were you comfy that you didn’t notice the time passed you by? Was there chemistry?
  • Do not be hasty in making your final assessment. If the date didn’t sound so good but he/she seems nice, give him another chance. It might just be a case of “being in a wrong place at a wrong time”.

The two-day rule.

  • Allot at least two days before you get in touch again. A day later might mean you’re too desperate. A week might signify you have no intention to pursue her anymore.
  • Learn the word “compromise”. For men, give her an option to say no BUT remember to convey that you are interested and willing to wait. For women, in case you are busy with your sched, recommend an alternative where you’ll be most available.
  • How to contact her. You can either make a call or have a bunch of flowers delivered to her home to subtlety inform that you like her.